Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Marriage, Focus on the Family

***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/

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Episodes

Monday Feb 26, 2024

Podcast Episode Title: "The Art of Giving: Exploring Acts of Service as a Love Language"
Description:
In this heartwarming episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into the transformative power of Acts of Service, one of the core love languages identified by Dr. Gary Chapman. Acts of Service transcend the mundane tasks of daily life, embodying gestures of love that speak volumes to those who cherish this language above all.
Join us as we uncover the essence of Acts of Service—where actions speak louder than words and every deed is a profound expression of love. We'll explore how these thoughtful acts, from preparing a favorite meal to taking over a daunting task, can significantly strengthen the bonds of a relationship.
Our discussion will guide you through understanding the nuances of Acts of Service, including how to recognize if this is your or your partner's primary love language, and the common pitfalls to avoid. We'll share inspiring stories from real couples who have seen their love flourish by incorporating Acts of Service into their daily lives, offering practical tips on how you can do the same.
Whether it's fixing a leaky faucet to show care or simply making a cup of coffee in the morning as a gesture of love, we'll demonstrate how these actions can deeply convey affection, appreciation, and understanding.
For those looking to deepen their relationship and express love in the most impactful way to their Acts of Service-oriented partner, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and ideas. Prepare to transform everyday moments into extraordinary expressions of love and discover the joy of giving through Acts of Service.
Remember, love is not just about saying the words but showing them in every action you take. Tune in to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" for an entertaining journey into making Acts of Service a powerful tool in nurturing your relationship.
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Wednesday Feb 21, 2024

In this captivating episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we dive deep into the world of Words of Affirmation, one of the five love languages coined by Dr. Gary Chapman. This episode is dedicated to unraveling the nuances and profound impact that words can have on our relationships and emotional connections.
Words of Affirmation go beyond simple compliments. They are the verbal expressions of love, appreciation, and validation that can significantly strengthen the bond between partners. We explore why and how affirming words can be a powerful tool in nurturing a loving relationship. From heartfelt compliments to empathetic listening and affirming responses, this language revolves around the emotional value that words carry.
Join us as we discuss practical ways to incorporate Words of Affirmation into your daily interactions. Whether it's through crafting meaningful compliments, expressing gratitude, or offering verbal support during challenging times, we delve into strategies that can help you communicate love and appreciation more effectively.
We also tackle common challenges, such as finding the right words, understanding the difference between flattery and genuine affirmation, and how to communicate if your partner's primary love language differs from yours.
This episode is not just for those whose primary love language is Words of Affirmation, but also for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills in relationships. Learn how to use words to build up, heal, and deepen the emotional connection with your partner.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
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[Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a medical or psychological consultation.]

Tuesday Feb 20, 2024

Welcome to another encouraging episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we delve into the fascinating world of love languages. In this episode, we're exploring the groundbreaking concept developed by Dr. Gary Chapman, which has transformed countless relationships around the globe.
Love, often seen as a complex emotion, can be expressed and understood in many ways. Dr. Chapman categorizes these into five distinct love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Each language is unique and holds the key to unlocking deeper connections with our partners.
Join us as we break down each love language, providing insights into how they influence our relationships. We'll discuss how Words of Affirmation can uplift and validate, how Acts of Service demonstrate love through action, the symbolic meaning behind Receiving Gifts, the importance of undivided attention in Quality Time, and the comforting power of Physical Touch.
Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just starting a new one, understanding these love languages can lead to more meaningful connections and communication. We'll also share tips on identifying your own love language and that of your partner, and how to use this knowledge to enhance your relationship.
This episode isn't just for couples; it's also for anyone looking to improve their understanding of emotional needs and expressions of love. So, tune in to "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" and embark on a journey to deeper emotional intimacy and strengthened bonds. Remember, love is a language we can all learn to speak fluently.
 
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Wednesday Feb 14, 2024

We're excited to re-release one of our most impactful episodes on "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," focusing on the art of Daily Dialogue in relationships. This episode dives into the power of three simple yet profound questions: "What did you appreciate about our relationship today?" "What didn't you appreciate about our relationship today?" and "How can I help you?"
We explore how these questions can transform your relationship, fostering a deeper understanding, appreciation, and connection between partners. The episode emphasizes the importance of regular, open communication in strengthening the bond you share. We discuss the positive impacts of acknowledging what we value in our relationships each day, addressing areas of discomfort or dissatisfaction, and actively seeking ways to support each other.
This isn’t just about routine check-ins; it’s about creating a space for vulnerability, honesty, and continuous growth in your relationship. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection, navigate through challenges, or simply enhance your daily interactions, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips for meaningful communication.
Tune in to rediscover the power of daily dialogue and bring a new level of depth and understanding to your relationship.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Tuesday Feb 13, 2024

In this crucial episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we tackle a topic that's at the forefront of every parent's mind: the impact of negative influences on children from friends, family, and other sources. Understanding and addressing these influences is key to fostering a healthy environment for your child's growth and development.
We delve into how friends and certain family members can sometimes lead to negative behaviors, attitudes, and beliefs in children. We'll discuss the signs to look out for that may indicate your child is under a negative influence and the potential long-term effects on their behavior and mental health.
But it's not just about identifying the problem; we also offer practical strategies and tips for parents. Learn how to talk to your kids about choosing the right friends, the importance of positive role models, and how to cultivate a strong, values-based foundation at home. We'll also explore the delicate balance of guiding your children without overstepping, ensuring they learn to make good decisions independently.
Join us as we provide insights and tools to help you guide your children through the maze of social interactions and influences, ensuring they emerge as strong, confident individuals.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Wednesday Feb 07, 2024

In this vital episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we delve into a topic that many parents find challenging yet necessary: talking to your kids about sex. We outline 10 compelling reasons why having open and honest discussions about sex with your children is crucial in today’s world. From fostering a healthy understanding of sexuality and relationships to protecting them from misinformation and harmful influences, this episode sheds light on the importance of sex education in the family setting.
We'll discuss how these conversations can help build trust and openness between parents and children, and why they are essential for promoting safe practices, emotional well-being, and respect for oneself and others. We'll also address how to counteract the unrealistic portrayals of sex in media and the internet, and the role of parents in setting a positive example.
This episode is not just about the mechanics of sex; it's about equipping your children with knowledge, understanding, and values to navigate their sexual development healthily and responsibly. Whether you're looking for guidance on how to start this conversation or seeking to deepen your existing dialogue, this episode provides practical insights and supportive advice.
Tune in to understand why these conversations are key to raising well-informed, respectful, and safe young adults.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
 
 

Tuesday Feb 06, 2024

In this crucial episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," we address a topic of growing importance in our digital age: discussing pornography with your children. As uncomfortable as it may seem, having open and honest conversations about pornography is essential in today’s world where access is easier than ever. We explore why it's important to talk about this sensitive subject, and how to approach it in an age-appropriate and constructive manner.
We'll provide guidance on how to create a safe and non-judgmental space for these discussions, helping your children understand the risks and realities of pornography. We also discuss the psychological impacts of early exposure to explicit content and how to equip kids with the critical thinking skills they need to navigate the digital world responsibly.
This episode is not just about shielding our children from harm; it’s about empowering them with knowledge and understanding. Whether you're a parent seeking advice on how to start this tough conversation or looking for ways to educate your child about internet safety, this episode offers practical tips and compassionate insights for navigating these challenging waters.
Tune in for an open and informative discussion on preparing your children to make safe and informed decisions in the digital world.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Wednesday Jan 31, 2024

In Part 2 of our in-depth series on children and social media, "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy" continues to explore practical strategies for parents and guardians. This episode focuses on guiding and protecting our children in their digital engagements.
In Segment 4: Parental Guidance and Monitoring, we delve into the crucial role parents play in setting healthy boundaries for social media use. We'll discuss effective methods for establishing limits and guidelines, and introduce various parental control software and privacy setting tips that can assist in monitoring online activities safely.
Moving on to Segment 5: Encouraging Healthy Habits, we emphasize the importance of a balanced approach to online and offline life. Here, we offer advice on fostering healthy digital habits, including how to encourage children to use social media for learning and positive interactions rather than passive consumption.
In Segment 6: Open Communication, we stress the importance of creating a safe and open environment for children to discuss their online experiences. We provide guidance on how parents can encourage open dialogues, and offer practical tips on how to respond effectively if a child encounters problems online, such as cyberbullying or exposure to inappropriate content.
This episode is designed to equip parents with the tools and knowledge needed to navigate the challenges of modern digital parenting. It's a guide to helping children develop a healthy, informed, and positive relationship with social media.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Monday Jan 29, 2024

Welcome to a pivotal episode of "Mr. and Mrs. Therapy," where we begin our deep dive into the complex world of children and social media. In Part 1 of this series, we explore the expanding presence of social media in children's lives and its accompanying risks and challenges.
We start with an overview of how social media usage has grown among children and the potential impacts this has on their development and well-being. This introduction sets the stage for a comprehensive understanding of the digital environment our children are navigating.
In Segment 1: Understanding the Risks, we delve into the darker side of social media. We discuss the prevalence and effects of cyberbullying, highlighting how online anonymity and distance can foster bullying behaviors. Next, we address the issue of Inappropriate Content, shedding light on children's exposure to harmful material and its potential impact on their mental health and perception of the world. Lastly, we turn our attention to Privacy Concerns, discussing the dangers of data theft and the threat posed by online predators.
Moving to Segment 3: Building Digital Literacy, we emphasize the importance of teaching children critical thinking skills for online interactions. We guide listeners on how to educate children to discern reliable sources and recognize fake news, equipping them with the tools to navigate the internet safely and responsibly. Additionally, we delve into the concept of Understanding Digital Footprints, discussing the long-term implications of online activities and the significance of maintaining a positive digital identity.
This episode is an essential listen for parents, educators, and guardians striving to understand and mitigate the risks associated with children's social media usage. Tune in for insights and strategies to help safeguard our children in this ever-evolving digital age.
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

Thursday Jan 25, 2024

"The Talk" gets built up in peoples minds and they are terrified often time to breach the subject of sex to their kids. The truth is most of the time it is only awkward because we as parents make it awkward or we wait too long to bring up the subject. Talking about sex should not be a taboo subject. If you treat it like it is uncomfortable your kids will not come to you with questions or concerns. This is a conversation that should happen many times over their childhood.
Join us today and remove fear and worry about pressing forward with this conversation. There is more safety for your kids in being open about sex than there is in avoiding the subject all together. 
Remember to join our community discussion over at our Facebook Group: Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, or share your experiences with us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com.
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}

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