Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/
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Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
We've been doing a series on Personality & Relationships. We are taking you through the different preferences of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator, what each mean & how they can affect your relationship. In today's podcast we continue in part 2 of THINKING vs FEELING
"Thinkers" usually tell the truth, even if it's not very nice. They like to question what other people say and use logic to make decisions. They're good at organizing information and getting to the point quickly. They don't like to talk about their feelings too much and might ignore them if they don't make sense with what they're thinking. Thinkers want to help society by criticizing bad things and finding solutions to problems.
The other type is called a "Feeler." These people are more likely to be nice than truthful. They don't like to argue or disagree with other people. They're friendly and may talk a lot without being very organized. They care a lot about their feelings and other people's feelings, too. They don't like to think about things that might hurt someone's feelings. Feelers want to help society by doing good things that everyone agrees on and that make people happy.
Listen to Related Episodes:
Ep. 54 - Thinking vs Feeling (Part 1)
Ep 53 - Sensing vs Intuition
Ep 52 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 2)
Ep 51 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 1)
Ep. 50 - Myers Briggs Type Indicator, MBTI - Personality and Relationships
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
We've been doing a series on Personality & Relationships. We are taking you through the different preferences, what each mean & how they can affect your relationship.
In today's podcast we tackle THINKING vs FEELING
1. Decision-making: Thinkers tend to make decisions based on logic and objective analysis, whereas Feelers tend to make decisions based on personal values and subjective considerations. Thinkers are more likely to prioritize facts and data, while Feelers are more likely to consider how their decisions will impact others and their emotions.
2. Communication style: Thinkers tend to communicate in a direct and analytical manner, focusing on the facts and details of a situation. Feelers, on the other hand, tend to communicate in a more personal and empathetic way, focusing on emotions and relationships.
3. Problem-solving: Thinkers approach problem-solving with a logical and systematic approach, breaking down complex issues into smaller, more manageable parts. Feelers tend to approach problem-solving in a more holistic and intuitive way, relying on their personal values and empathy to guide their decisions.
4. Criticism: Thinkers tend to be more objective and detached when receiving criticism, focusing on the logic and merit of the critique. Feelers may take criticism more personally and be more concerned with maintaining positive relationships.
5. Decision-making under pressure: Thinkers tend to remain calm and rational under pressure, relying on their analytical skills to make quick decisions. Feelers may struggle with decision-making under pressure, as they may become overwhelmed by their emotions and the impact their decisions will have on others.
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http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
Listen to Related Episodes:
Ep 53 - Sensing vs Intuition
Ep 52 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 2)
Ep 51 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 1)
Ep. 50 - Myers Briggs Type Indicator, MBTI - Personality and Relationships
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You can also email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
Sensing and intuition are two different ways that people perceive and understand the world around them, it's how they take in and gather information. People who prefer sensing tend to pay more attention to what they can see, hear, touch, taste, and smell in the physical world. They are often very detail-oriented and practical. They enjoy learning through hands-on experiences and tend to be good at remembering specific facts and details.
On the other hand, people who prefer intuition tend to be more focused on ideas, possibilities, and connections between things. They enjoy looking at the bigger picture and thinking about what could be possible in the future. They often have a natural curiosity and enjoy exploring new ideas and concepts.
These different preferences can impact how people approach a variety of situations. For example, if you were planning a vacation with a friend who has a sensing preference, they might want to focus on practical details like finding a good hotel and planning out specific activities for each day. But if you were planning a vacation with a friend who has an intuition preference, they might want to brainstorm different possibilities and explore new and interesting places that you might not have considered otherwise.
Ultimately, there is no right or wrong way to perceive and understand the world. Both sensing and intuition have their strengths and can be useful in different situations. The important thing is to understand your own preferences and to appreciate and respect the preferences of others.
**Take the inventory linked below, then screenshot your results & post them over in the designated post in our Facebook Community**
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
Listen to Related Episodes:
Ep 52 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 2)
Ep 51 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 1)
Ep. 50 - Myers Briggs Type Indicator, MBTI - Personality and Relationships
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You can also email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Thursday Mar 23, 2023
Thursday Mar 23, 2023
Part 2! Being able to know who you are and what you need is important. Our emotional needs can feel confusing sometimes because we can function without them being met but we do function in less optimal ways. Knowing if you are introverted or extroverted can help you understand situations that are better for you and why you may struggle in others.
**Take the inventory linked below, then screenshot your results & post them over in the designated post in our Facebook Community**
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
Listen to Related Episodes mention on today's show:
Ep 51 - Introversion vs Extroversion (Part 1)
Ep. 50 - Myers Briggs Type Indicator, MBTI - Personality and Relationships
Ep 21 - Avoid These 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse - They Can Cause Your Relationships to FAIL!
Ep 19 - The Pursuer, Distancer Relationship
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Tuesday Mar 21, 2023
Tuesday Mar 21, 2023
Being able to know who you are and what you need is important. Our emotional needs can feel confusing sometimes because we can function without them being met but we do function in less optimal ways. Knowing if you are introverted or extroverted can help you understand situations that are better for you and why you may struggle in others.
**Take the inventory linked below, then screenshot your results & post them over in the designated post in our Facebook Community**
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
Listen to Related Episodes:
Ep. 50 - Who Am I? Who Are You? - Personality & Relationships
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Thursday Mar 16, 2023
Thursday Mar 16, 2023
We are launching into a new series - Personality Types and Relationships
Who are you? Who am I? That is what we seek to answer in this podcast. We are going to be explaining and giving a brief overview of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). This inventory helps you to understand your needs and the needs of others. It is hard to ask for something if you don't even know you need it.In this Series we'll be discussing the 16 Personality Types of the MBTI. Today we start with the flyover view of All of the preferences.
**Take the inventory linked below, then screenshot your results & post them over in the designated post in our Facebook Community**
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp
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You can also email us at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com
{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Tuesday Mar 14, 2023
Tuesday Mar 14, 2023
This title may unsettle you. But rest assured we want you to let them do dangerous things...carefully. This will help them learn what they are capable of and also learn how to handle the dangerous situations in ways that they are less likely to get hurt. Keeping them out of harms way and never allowing them to confront difficult situations will often leave kids unsure and unable to take action for fear of failure.
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Thursday Mar 09, 2023
Thursday Mar 09, 2023
Can losing 1 hour of sleep really make a difference? In short, YES! This Sunday is the start of Day Light Savings Time where many of us will change our clocks & "Spring Forward." Besides being exhausted the next day, why should we even care? Because there can be short term & long term effects while we not only lose this hour of sleep, but throughout the months of March - November we are getting less morning sunlight & throwing our circadian rhythms into a frenzy.
In just the week after Day Light Savings Time begins, research shows an associated rise in:
1. Cardiovascular disease, with a 24% higher risk of heart attacks
2. Injuries, including a 6% spike in fatal car accidents
3. Stroke rate, which increase by 8%
4. Mental health & cognitive issues, with an 11% spike in depressive episodes
5. Digestive and immune-related diseases, such as colitis, which increase by 3% in females over age 60.
Resource mentioned in this episode:
TedTalk by the Dr. Matthew Walker aka "Sleep Diplomat": Sleep is Your Superpower
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Tuesday Mar 07, 2023
Tuesday Mar 07, 2023
Anger can damage relationships and cause you to feel out of control. The truth is anger is the symptom but not the actual problem. Unresolved and not expressed emotions are the problem that turn into anger. In this podcast we will help you to identify your underlying emotions and learn to express them so that we can ICE out anger.
Other episodes mentioned on today's podcast:
Ep. 34 - Fair Fighting Rules
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
Thursday Mar 02, 2023
In Part 2 of this 2 part series we will talk about how you might be wasting your time by dating the wrong people and we'll talk about how you can learn to laser focus your time dating to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. In order to keep laser focus you need your list... Your Non-Negotiables List.
Your Non-Negotiables List will help you when you start to catch feelings to BE ABLE TO ASSESS IF THIS PERSON IS WORTH YOUR TIME OR LIKELY TO WASTE YOUR TIME!
Related Episodes:
Ep. 45 - You Are Wasting Your Time Dating (Part 1)
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{Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For additional and personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}