Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/
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Thursday Aug 28, 2025
Thursday Aug 28, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the issue of changing one's words, behaviors, or values to please others. They explore various reasons for this tendency, such as childhood messages, trauma, societal pressures, and people-pleasing habits. The conversation includes a personal story about their daughter's experience with criticism while worshiping, emphasizing the importance of staying true to oneself and finding identity in Christ. The episode concludes with practical steps to embrace authenticity, including knowing oneself, identifying triggers, practicing honesty, affirming identity, setting boundaries, and surrounding oneself with supportive people.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:38 Why We Change Ourselves
01:46 A Personal Story: Teaching Our Daughter
07:28 The Dangers of Changing Yourself
11:50 Embracing Your True Self
18:08 Practical Steps to Authenticity
19:56 Conclusion and Encouragement
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Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
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Join Tim and Ruth, licensed marriage and family therapists with a background in trauma therapy, as they introduce their self-guided EMDR program for overcoming trauma. This session explores the benefits of EMDR, including its ability to heal past trauma, improve brain function, and increase emotional resilience. They explain the science behind EMDR, how it addresses both emotional and physical danger, and the key role of the prefrontal cortex and amygdala. The episode also emphasizes the program's convenience, affordability, and effectiveness, while providing practical advice for success in the process. Listeners are encouraged to engage with the student community for support and questions.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:08 Meet Tim and Ruth
00:31 Understanding EMDR Therapy
00:56 Benefits of EMDR
06:41 Self-Guided EMDR Program
10:09 Setting Yourself Up for Success
12:33 The Importance of Honesty and Grit
17:19 Understanding the Brain's Role in EMDR
23:24 Increasing Emotional Resilience
26:48 Community Support and Conclusion
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Thursday Aug 21, 2025
Thursday Aug 21, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs Therapy podcast, the hosts tackle the modern myth of achieving perfect balance in life. They discuss how constantly striving for balance can leave individuals feeling exhausted, discouraged, and guilty. Instead, they advocate for a focus on priorities and being faithfully present in the season of life one is in. The episode covers practical tips such as redefining success, replacing balance with priorities, and building life rhythms. Scriptural references, like Ecclesiastes 3 and Colossians 3:23, provide a Christian perspective on seasonal living and prioritizing what truly matters.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:08 The Myth of Balance
01:50 Cultural Narratives and Social Media
04:09 The Concept of Diminishing Returns
07:02 Biblical Perspective on Balance
11:39 Practical Tools for Faithful Presence
14:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Monday Aug 18, 2025
Monday Aug 18, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the 'comparison trap' and how social media can distort self-worth. They explain how platforms highlight only the best moments of people's lives, leading to unfair comparisons and feelings of inadequacy. The episode explores the psychological and emotional impacts of these comparisons, including increased rates of depression and anxiety. Practical strategies to escape the comparison trap are shared, such as curating your social media feed intentionally, practicing daily gratitude, limiting screen time, focusing on your own gifts and abilities, and replacing comparison with celebration. The hosts also provide a biblical perspective on finding worth beyond social media validation and emphasize the positive potential of social media when used purposefully.
00:00 Introduction to the Comparison Trap
00:53 The Impact of Social Media on Self-Worth
05:12 Psychological Insights into Comparison
08:18 Biblical Perspective on Self-Worth
10:28 Practical Strategies to Escape the Comparison Trap
15:44 Conclusion and Positive Use of Social Media
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Thursday Aug 14, 2025
Thursday Aug 14, 2025
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In this episode of Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts explore the delicate balance between truth and love, discussing the nuances of healthy honesty, radical honesty, and avoidance. They provide insights into the psychology behind why people gravitate towards either extreme and offer practical advice for speaking truths in a manner that maintains emotional safety and relationship integrity. Key strategies discussed include understanding your goal, checking the timing, using a compliment sandwich, focusing on your experience rather than character, and being prepared to listen. Additionally, they draw on biblical principles to highlight the importance of gentle and loving communication.
00:00 Introduction to Honesty in Relationships
00:38 Defining Types of Honesty
01:10 Balancing Truth and Love
02:02 Practical Examples of Honesty
05:01 Understanding Extremes in Honesty
08:14 Psychology of Too Much Honesty
10:34 Framework for Speaking Truth in Love
13:32 Biblical Insights on Honesty
15:06 Conclusion and Practical Tips
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Monday Aug 11, 2025
Monday Aug 11, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts explore the concept of vulnerability as a crucial and often frightening relationship skill. They delve into what true vulnerability looks like, its significance for emotional connection, and how past wounds can obstruct our ability to be vulnerable. Listeners will gain practical advice on practicing safe vulnerability, starting with self-awareness, sharing slowly, naming feelings accurately, creating empathetic spaces, and managing emotional reactions. The episode concludes with a practical challenge to practice a small act of vulnerability in a key relationship.
00:00 Introduction to Vulnerability
00:58 Defining Vulnerability
01:29 Examples of Vulnerability
02:22 The Fear of Vulnerability
02:56 Overcoming Past Wounds
07:21 Building Safe Vulnerability
10:28 Practical Tips for Vulnerability
12:08 Conclusion and Challenge
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
Tuesday Aug 05, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs Therapy podcast, the hosts discuss the myth of compatibility in marriage, emphasizing the importance of commitment over initial chemistry. They argue that compatibility and chemistry should not be the foundation of a lasting marriage, but rather commitment, shared values, and a covenant centered around Christ. They explore how culture has idolized the idea of a 'perfect match' and debunk misconceptions about destiny vs. free will in choosing a partner. The episode offers practical advice for rekindling intimacy and maintaining a strong marriage through intentional actions, loving choices, and healthy conflict resolution, even amidst life's adversities and changes.
00:00 Introduction: The Myth of Compatibility
00:40 Chemistry vs. Commitment
03:04 The Illusion of the Perfect Match
05:07 The Reality of Marriage Challenges
07:38 Building a Strong Foundation
09:46 Love as a Choice, Not a Feeling
12:05 Embracing Tension and Growth
14:48 Rekindling Intimacy
16:06 Practical Steps to Reconnect
16:41 Conclusion: Focus on Commitment and Christ
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Friday Aug 01, 2025
Friday Aug 01, 2025
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In this episode, we delve into why some apologies fail and how to truly repair trust in relationships when 'I'm sorry' isn't enough. We explore the necessity of emotional validation and changed behavior to rebuild trust. Key points include understanding why a rushed or empathy-lacking apology falls flat, the importance of ownership and validation, and the significance of demonstrating change. Practical tips are provided for both giving and receiving effective apologies, highlighting three crucial elements: ownership, validation, and change. Additionally, we discuss actions to take when an apology from your partner is missing or insufficient.
00:00 Introduction: The Problem with Apologies
00:48 Why Basic Apologies Fail
05:52 The Three Elements of Real Repair
12:31 When You Need an Apology
14:08 Conclusion: Rebuilding Trust Over Time
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
Tuesday Jul 29, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the often confusing distinction between true healing and mere avoidance, especially following a traumatic experience. They discuss how trauma can make it difficult to distinguish between setting healthy boundaries and erecting 'trauma walls.' Key differences between healthy boundaries and avoidance behaviors are outlined, and the importance of self-reflection, clear communication, and emotional presence is emphasized. Reflection questions and actionable steps, including seeking therapy, are provided to help listeners move from avoidance to genuine healing and establish boundaries that foster both protection and connection.
00:00 Introduction to Healing vs. Avoidance
01:19 Understanding the Blurred Lines
02:13 Healthy Boundaries vs. Trauma Walls
08:35 Reflection Questions for Self-Assessment
13:41 Steps to Move from Avoidance to Healing
17:16 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
Tuesday Jul 22, 2025
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In this episode of the Mr. And Mrs. Therapy podcast, the hosts delve into the problematic nature of judgmental 'why' questions in relationships. They discuss how such questions, even when asked with genuine curiosity, can come across as accusatory and trigger defensive reactions. The episode explores the significance of tone, timing, and past traumas in how people respond to 'why' questions. The hosts provide actionable advice on reframing these questions to promote understanding and emotional safety, offering alternative ways to communicate that build connection rather than conflict. The insights shared are applicable to various relationships, including marriage, parenting, and self-talk.
00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
01:11 The Impact of Judgmental 'Why' Questions
05:13 Key Factors: Tone, Timing, and Trauma Echoes
07:10 Alternatives to 'Why' Questions
11:40 Building New Communication Habits
14:51 Recap and Final Thoughts
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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