Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Marriage, Focus on the Family
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/
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2 days ago
2 days ago
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Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through life's challenges with empathy and expertise. As the holiday season approaches, they introduce a new mini-series focused on grief, a complex emotion that can be particularly challenging during festive times.
In this first episode, Tim and Ruth delve into the stages of grief, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and processing your emotions. They discuss how grief isn't a linear journey but rather a series of waves that can hit unexpectedly. By understanding these stages—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—listeners are encouraged to embrace their feelings and find ways to heal.
Join them as they explore how to hold space for both joy and grief, ensuring that the memory of loved ones is honored while still allowing room for healing and happiness. Whether you're personally grieving or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies to navigate this emotional landscape.
Stay tuned for the next episodes in the series, which will provide tips for managing grief during the holidays and supporting others in their grief journey.
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7 days ago
7 days ago
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Welcome to another episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, share insights on transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth. This week, they explore the art of pivoting when things don't go as planned.
Discover how emotional and financial attachments can hinder change, and learn the importance of assessing situations to make informed decisions. With engaging anecdotes, Tim and Ruth emphasize the significance of adapting to life's unpredictable turns and re-evaluating goals to align with family values and personal well-being.
Join them as they discuss strategies for recognizing when it's time to pivot and how to approach change with an optimistic mindset. Whether you're facing a minor shift or a significant life decision, this episode offers valuable guidance for navigating transitions and fostering healthier relationships.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Monday Nov 11, 2024
Monday Nov 11, 2024
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Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the fundamental purpose of communication in relationships. As licensed marriage and family therapists, they delve into the reasons we communicate and how purposeful communication can foster deeper connections, reduce conflict, and enhance personal growth.
This episode kicks off with an intriguing story about a client with schizoaffective disorder, highlighting the power of vocabulary and the true purpose of communication: mutual understanding. The Olsons discuss how communication is a two-way street aimed at building connections, sharing information, expressing needs and emotions, resolving conflicts, and facilitating growth and learning.
Through engaging examples and expert insights, Tim and Ruth offer practical strategies for becoming more intentional and mindful communicators. They emphasize the importance of humor, vulnerability, and empathy in conversations to strengthen relationships and navigate conflicts successfully.
Join the Olsons in this insightful episode as they guide you to harness the transformative power of communication. Whether you're looking to heal past wounds or simply improve your interactions, this episode provides the tools you need to create meaningful and fulfilling connections.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Thursday Nov 07, 2024
Thursday Nov 07, 2024
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Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into personal growth and relationship building. In this episode, recorded just days before election day, we shift focus from systemic election anxiety to personal management strategies for staying calm post-election.
Join us as we explore how personal agency, adaptability, and focusing on what you can control can empower you to manage anxiety. We discuss the importance of staying connected with others, even amidst differing political views, and how to engage in productive conversations without escalating tensions.
Discover mindfulness and grounding techniques to remain present, and learn the value of resilience in navigating life's uncertainties. Whether you've already voted or are anxiously awaiting results, this episode offers practical insights for maintaining mental well-being during turbulent times.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Monday Nov 04, 2024
Monday Nov 04, 2024
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Welcome to a special Election Day episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, guide you through the tension and anxiety that often accompany election seasons.
In this episode, Tim and Ruth offer a calming voice of reason, discussing the balance of power within the U.S. government system and how it limits radical changes post-election. They also emphasize the importance of understanding individual influence at local and state levels, which often impacts daily life more than federal politics.
Drawing on their expertise in trauma and mental health, the Olson's provide personal strategies to manage election-related fears, reminding listeners of the enduring stability of democratic systems and the deeper belief that a higher power is ultimately in control.
Join them as they encourage you to stay informed, exercise your right to vote, and maintain a balanced perspective amidst political uncertainties. Tune in for practical advice and emotional support, empowering you to navigate this election season with resilience and hope.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
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In this engaging episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the concept of the mental "ledger" we keep, often unintentionally, of the wrongs done to us. Through a personal story about racquetball, Tim illustrates how this ledger can lead to frustration and resentment if left unchecked.
The Olsons discuss practical strategies for addressing these feelings by either actively forgiving others or changing behaviors to even out perceived imbalances in relationships. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and understanding different perspectives to maintain harmony and prevent conflicts from escalating.
Listeners are encouraged to examine their own relationships and consider how they can clear their mental ledgers to foster healthier connections. Whether it's through open communication or behavioral adjustments, this episode offers valuable insights into transforming adversity into opportunities for personal growth and stronger relationships.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Monday Oct 14, 2024
Monday Oct 14, 2024
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Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, they delve into the intriguing world of sales, exploring how different approaches can impact both the buyer and the seller.
Join Tim and Ruth as they share their recent experiences at three car dealerships, each offering a unique insight into sales tactics and customer service. Discover how underlying assumptions and personal attitudes play a crucial role in the sales process, influencing trust and satisfaction.
Through engaging storytelling and expert insights, learn about the psychology behind sales interactions, from high-pressure tactics to genuine customer care. Whether you're wary of salespeople or seeking to improve your negotiation skills, this episode provides valuable strategies for navigating the sales landscape with confidence.
Tune in to gain wisdom and practical tips for fostering better communication, making informed decisions, and creating meaningful connections in the world of sales. If you're ready to transform adversity into triumph, this episode is your guide to personal growth and healing from past experiences.
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Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
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Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, seasoned marriage and family therapists, guide you through transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. This episode concludes their insightful series on Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) by addressing the criticisms related to its accessibility and cost.
The Olsons delve into the financial aspects of therapy, discussing the impact of insurance on session availability and therapist caseloads. They highlight the cost-effectiveness of EMDR, emphasizing its potential for faster symptom reduction and fewer overall sessions compared to other therapeutic methods.
Accessibility is also a key focus, with discussions on the growing number of trained EMDR therapists and the increasing inclusion of EMDR training in counseling programs. The episode explores the benefits of telehealth, which has expanded EMDR's reach, making it more accessible to diverse populations, including those in remote areas or with limited mobility.
Join Tim and Ruth as they provide expert insights and practical strategies to help you navigate the complexities of mental health and therapy. Whether you're seeking healing from past traumas or aiming to strengthen your relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and encouragement on your journey to wellness.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
Tuesday Oct 08, 2024
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Welcome to another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, dive into the intricacies of EMDR therapy. This week, they address the criticism that EMDR places too much emphasis on trauma memory processing, potentially overlooking broader psychological and social factors.
Join Tim and Ruth as they unpack how EMDR can act as a gateway to resolving wider issues by first tackling deep-seated trauma. They explain how trauma often underlies various mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties, and how EMDR can unearth and process these memories to pave the way for healing.
The episode also explores the holistic nature of EMDR, which incorporates relationship building, skill development, and emotional regulation. Learn how EMDR isn't just about processing memories but also about equipping clients with the tools to handle emotional challenges effectively, leading to healthier relationships and personal growth.
Tune in for insightful discussions, expert opinions, and practical strategies that emphasize the transformative potential of EMDR therapy in addressing both trauma and its ripple effects on everyday life.
[Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]
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Thursday Oct 03, 2024
Thursday Oct 03, 2024
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Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson delve into the world of EMDR therapy. Today, we tackle the common criticism that EMDR's effectiveness is merely a placebo effect. Join us as we explore the origins of this belief, and how extensive research and real-world outcomes challenge this notion.
In this episode, we discuss the placebo effect in depth, clarifying its meaning and implications in therapeutic settings. Discover how EMDR consistently outperforms placebo treatments in numerous studies, showcasing its true potential in healing trauma and PTSD. We also highlight fascinating neurobiological evidence demonstrating EMDR's impact on brain function, leading to lasting change.
Whether you're a skeptic or a believer, this episode will provide you with valuable insights into the transformative power of EMDR therapy. Tune in to learn how this therapy can help rewire your brain's response to trauma, offering long-term relief and healing. Don't miss this opportunity to deepen your understanding and challenge preconceived notions about therapy.
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